Wednesday, November 11, 2015

Hanging Rock State Park, take 2 (10/17/2015)

When Kevin was a baby we visited Hanging Rock State Park with Ryan's parents and had a really nice time. Since we are probably moving next summer I wanted to go back one more time, and we finally had an unscheduled weekend with great weather.

There are several different trails there, but this time we decided to try the trail to Hanging Rock. The trail was described as a moderate hike, but it was a little more difficult than I anticipated. Most of the way was uphill, and as we got higher the trail was uneven stairs made of boulders and rocks, so that was challenging for the kids. But we kept encouraging them and they made it all the way to the top and back. We were very proud of them.

There were a lot of people and a lot of dogs. I was impressed by the many rat-sized dogs with bows in their hair that walked all the way up to Hanging Rock.

When we got to the top I felt like I was too tired to appreciate the view. Ryan was excited and wanted me to come see, but I just wanted to sit and process the fact that I finally finished climbing the mountain. Mainly I was freaking out trying to keep Kevin and Heidi from running right off a cliff. I think the stress of keeping track of the kids made it hard to appreciate the beautiful views as much as I normally would have. But it was a great view and it was nice to see so much of the sky for once.

On the way back Heidi said her hands were cold and I made the mistake of telling her to put her hands in her pockets, which meant she was trying to go down the boulder stairs with her hands in her pockets. She finally agreed that it would be better to keep her hands out so she could catch herself if she fell. At one point Kevin fell down some stairs and as I ran to him I was expecting to find him with a broken nose, but even though he stood up crying that he didn't want to go on this hike anymore, he didn't even have a scratch.

It was a lot easier on the way back since it was downhill. Heidi mostly stopped complaining and instead was saying, "This hike was so fun. But it was really boring."

Kevin was very happy when we stopped at Chick Fil A on the way home.

We went on several hikes this year. Most of the time when we do this I end up wondering why in the world we torture ourselves trying to drag our kids up a mountain, but after the fact it's mainly the good memories that stay. When Ryan and I got married we agreed that we wanted to go hiking and camping as a family, which was why I made a goal to go hiking more this year. I was thinking about it on the way back down the mountain, and I think we keep doing it because we want our kids to develop a love of nature and to know that it's important to be physically active and get away from the screens and electricity for a while. We were so proud of Kevin and Heidi for walking the whole way even though it was hard work.



Kevin and Heidi thought this branch growing sideways was pretty fun.











Monday, November 9, 2015

a few more September pictures

Kevin gave some weird explanation of how he wanted his orange cut, and the description didn't sound anything like, "I want my orange cut in quarters," but somehow I still managed to read his mind and knew he wanted it cut in quarters so he could put it in his mouth like this. Sometimes my mind-reading powers amaze even me. And then at the most inconvenient times they don't seem to work.



Ryan and I deny any knowledge of this event. We were completely surprised to find this picture on the camera.


Saturday, November 7, 2015

Science in our bathtub

A video by Physics Girl inspired some late-night science experiments in our bathtub.




Here's the video by Physics Girl:


Thursday, November 5, 2015

what we're up to

Whoops. Here's a post I wrote a few weeks ago.

Everyone except me has been sick, and the kids are now on round two of coughs. The humidifier is working overtime these days. Ann Marie's first cough was bad enough that I took her to the doctor. She sounded kind of rattley when she breathed and I was concerned. It turned out it was all in her throat, so it ended up being one of those visits where it's nice to know nothing's wrong but at the same time you kind of wish you hadn't bothered coming.

I've been practicing the piano a lot more since school started. I think I generally practice 4-5 times a week. My piano has been a bit of a disappointment because every key has a different timbre and it's already out of tune again, but at the same time I feel blessed to have one. I've been working through a sonatina book that has been a good challenge for me, and it's been very rewarding to see how much I improve over time. It usually takes me 3-4 weeks to learn all the movements of a sonatina. I hope that when my kids start learning to play my example of practicing consistently will be a motivation for them to do the same. The girls enjoy tormenting each other while I practice in the morning.

Halloween is just a couple of weeks away, so I'm trying to get costumes made. Heidi wants to be Anna from Frozen. Other than some strings to tie it her pink cape is done. For the dress I'm making her a jumper with a black bodice and a blue skirt. I don't think I've done much sewing for Halloween in previous years, but this year I thought it would be a fun project. Halloween is really fun with kids.

Ryan finished the revisions to his first paper and resubmitted it, so we're waiting to hear back about that, and he's working on another paper. The two papers will be his dissertation. Postdoc positions are starting to be posted too, so he's working on applications. I don't think it's registered yet that this is our last year here.

Kevin's reading skills have exploded in the past few months. They're learning about the commutative property of addition at school ("flip-flop facts"), and when we were working on his homework he told me, "Mom, this is like that poem in our book that says from Wibbleton to Wobbleton is fifteen miles and from Wobbleton to Wibbleton is fifteen miles."

Heidi loves her preschool coop. She asks every day if she has preschool that day. On Mondays we do a letter from Frontline Phonics, which has been great. I feel like the little lessons really help the kids to learn the letter sounds. On Wednesdays we work on handwriting. I think what I'm finding is that for a lot of kids writing letters on the traditional handwriting pages is intimidating because of the lines. Heidi will trace the letters, but sometimes she doesn't want to write them by herself. She seems to do better if she's writing on a sheet of computer paper. I think she'll start to get it by the time she goes to kindergarten. We also talk a little bit about numbers, art, geography, and science, and we work on kindergarten readiness skills. The kids like to do cutting pages. We also end with lunch, which all the kids enjoy. Heidi loves the idea of having her own lunchbox and choosing what food she wants.

Ann Marie is at a really cute stage, even if she's also a little mischievous. She will poke me at dinner just so I will look at her so she can say hi, and she's trying to figure out how to give kisses.

(10/12) Heidi climbed up on the counter when I wasn't looking and fell off. She landed on her face. Her teeth were bleeding and one was a little loose. After debating and worrying for a few hours I finally decided it would be better to get it looked at. They asked me if I could be there in 45 minutes, and apparently it really does take over half an hour just to get out the door with three kids because I was running around like a chicken with my head cut off the entire time and I was really frazzled when we got to the dentist's office. It turned out that Heidi's teeth look fine, so that was a relief. For some reason I always feel bad when I take my kids to a doctor for some illness and it turns out I didn't need to worry. But it did get me motivated to finally schedule the kids' first dentist appointments. The entire day felt mostly like a blur because I taught preschool in the morning and then Heidi fell off the counter right after that, and we went to the dentist's office after Kevin got home. Then when we got back from the dentist a neighbor boy was playing with a spinning paint toy in the hall and invited the kids to watch, which was a mess. Ann Marie got a hold of one of his soggy papers and had paint all over her hands. The one great thing was that Ryan's lab got cancelled, so he came home earlier than I expected and was able to help me out.

Added a couple of weeks later: I spoke too soon and last Sunday I came down with a cough and a headache that won't go away. And Ryan was lucky enough to come down with it too so he can't pick up the slack. Those zucchini I bought last Saturday (when I was healthy and full[ish] of energy) to make into zucchini bread are slowly shriveling up. At least now the vertigo has mostly gone away--that was, um, fun. On Monday morning when I said my prayers I said, "Heavenly Father, I know I'm going to be pretty sick this week, but please just help me to get the bathroom clean this week." And I actually did manage to get it cleaned, although the house has been a disaster.

[Since I wrote this post Ryan's paper came back and he just had a couple more revisions to make and then it's going to be published. The cough and headache eventually went away. A few days ago it occurred to me that the kids have been living on go-gurts and crackers, I've been living on canned soup, and Ryan's been living on cough drops. But things are getting back to normal now and now that the Halloween candy is almost gone we're eating our regular foods again.]

Tuesday, September 22, 2015

North Carolina Biological Reserve

On Labor Day we went to the North Carolina Biological Reserve. It was a very pretty ~2 mile loop. The kids enjoyed trying out the binoculars and they made it the whole way (not that they had much choice), although Heidi was complaining that she was very tired at the end.








Ryan balanced the camera on a post and used the timer feature so we could get a family picture!


Monday, September 21, 2015

some photos

Kevin seems to be enjoying first grade.


Heidi and Ann Marie sometimes have a lovely time playing together.





Heidi really wanted to have painted nails. Unfortunately she only had watercolors and markers, and she has used both (the Crayola Ultra-washable markers really do wash off easily, by the way). I finally got some cheap nail polish for her, and she was thrilled and did a good job of waiting for it to dry the first time I painted her nails.









Kevin and Heidi had a thing for sleeping on the floor for a couple of days.


Sunday, September 20, 2015

Next week our kids are participating in the Primary program at church, and they came home with invitations to give to friends. Kevin was very excited about it and wanted to go straight to a friend's house to invite him. The friend wasn't home, so Kevin wanted to invite a different friend instead. When he knocked on the friend's house he handed the invitation to the friend and started trying to explain, but the friend and his parents made it very clear that they didn't want to come to our church because they are Christians, and they said that other people from our church had gotten in their face and they didn't want to hear anything about it. It was probably the most awkward missionary experience I ever had and I came home feeling upset and wishing we hadn't even tried, especially because these people are our neighbors and we see them all the time.

But then I came home and read an entry in my journal in which I recorded some revelation I received in the temple about a year ago. At the time I was told by the Spirit that the most important thing with Kevin is to help him develop his testimony and prepare him for his mission. And now even though it was really awkward I think I am glad that this happened this afternoon because it is important for Kevin to gain experience trying to share the gospel and to know that sometimes people aren't interested. What a blessing it was that I recorded my temple experience a year ago so that I could look back on that memory now and see things in the right perspective.

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